If you might assume my last post to having been rude, I must tell you, it is not.
It is only a re-action of a very patient watcher of what is happening around, on long-lasting misfits in society.
Societies, none, won't get anything handled continuing these ways. It starts with how we breed and raise our children, how we educate and enable them - well, mostly disable more than anything else -, how we manage conflicts in constructive ways, how we solve problems which usually can be seen from far before they occur and so on and so forth.
As every action and reaction is intertwined, as everything depends on each atom or molecule within a system, the linear, hierarchical and monocausal approach, or call it duality, has overcome itself already long time ago. Still, it is powerful, and in its 'power' only destructive. Still, it creates illusions which keep on dragging every single being into being abused for the plans of others. It creates frameworks in which people imagine to be halfway safe, though the opposite they are.
Creation and problem fixing it has never learned, and will also never.
You can stuff baboons in dresses and suits, yet they remain baboons.
Funny that all these topics have been discussed decades ago, and just what was to be prevented, as we could have learned from negative examples and worked for much more positive ways, is manifesting itself. Dragons and Beasts rule.
Why the women/mothers issue.
Well, long time, as this is what I myself experienced over and over, I mainly observed male violence to be a root cause of societal problems and the hinderance for children growing in ways they could spread their wings, explore and learn to best handle this planet in all its richness and beauty. Beautiful and rich it is indeed, this is also something we need to learn, re-spect and see. It provides everything we, humans, and the whole creation would need to blossom and prosper well.
Though you can discuss a lot about what was first, the hen or the egg, it is most likely an intertwined, re-coupling reaction. Where males are violent, or just do only what they want to do each moment, women may become tricky to get what they want or need. Or it is the other way around, where women are tricky, men shut down listening to them, and become stubborn and, in case, violent. Each one tries to get their needs satisfied, and that is where children get into the game. Women abuse children, their own children, as much as men do, to satisfy their primary needs - the Dragon's - and their power drives, the Beast's ego.
Anyone who gets stuck on one of these levels, can actually never be satisfied. There is never an end to stuffing more and more into the Dragon's or the Beast's desires and sacrificing more and more of all that could end their mastery. Both will continue ruling the persons which they have under their control, and both won't learn. Learning would mean to question one's own former beliefs, and this constantly. Each time you question, logically, your framework is breaking down completely, like the ground you are standing on breaking away. Not a nice feeling, actually.
And yet, each new generation, each child born, would have the chance to change everything. If, yes IF, it was not for the each time present societies to break them down by breaking their integrity and will.
Mothers have a lot of Aces in these games.
Would have, actually.
Instead they, the majority not all, themselves feeling powerless try to gain power of those who are in turn weaker than themselves.
At a point, and when you realize how these games keep going on and on, if you yourself are more or less constantly struggling in and at a point against society which continues all this nonsense over and over, if you realize that all these days existing societies do nothing else than that, of course you get pissed some time.
We are right now experiencing, despite all human progress in technological and knowledge terms, that we are being pulled far back in everything. In thinking, solution-finding, constructive collaboration, respect of each one for the other, and so on and so forth. We are being pulled backwards just in every regard, including brain development. If I sometimes (or more often) mention that this organ is definitely the most sensitive treasure we have, I won't say that I cherish just sharp thinking. To the opposite, I cherish a good heart far more than a brilliant mind which abuses his or her genius in one or the other field for serving the purposes of greed or other related. A person with a good heart, with empathy where it is needed, saves probably lives all without any literacy or so-called education.
This era also shows how much every human collaboration sooner or later ends up in corruption and abuse when it is based in hierarchical structures driven by either the Dragon or the Beast or both of them.
Mothers, again back to them, could do a lot to at least trying to give a sense of love to at least their own children, better even, to any child around. It costs a gesture, a glance. Many though are infertile meanwhile, and this with very good reason. Nature would take care, just human thinks they have all rights.
All rights they don't - rights always come with duties, my dears.
Instead, and this is also pulling through the generations, they keep abusing their own sons to function as the vehicles what they themselves never tried to move or even touch.
Just while recently exploring the effect of the
intentional childhood traumatization practiced under the
'cultural excuse', just a next mass lure exposes itself:
Every man who is affected and whom I know, and yes, I know lots of people from most varying backgrounds, else I would not dare to re-assess other backgrounds as I do with mine, too, is ultimately drawn to this inner-social event, the cosiness and feeling of safety with food and family.
Scientifically we know that especially sharing meals, eating together, is releasing
bonding hormones.(
'Thus, oxytocin may reinforce prosocial behaviors after an initial bond
is formed, but may enhance defensive behaviors to unfamiliar individuals'.
So no wonder that this is something that was 'culturally' instrumentalized for re-fixing the hostage relations which I had an in-depth understanding period of what and how it happens some time before.
While infants have a natural right of being protected by their natural parents and wider group, these are being offended, 'life-endangeringly bitten' from the point of view of any infant animal (and animals we are evolutionary, never forget!), by exactly those under whose protection they should naturally be, and in a next step over-celebrated.
Such causes quite logically a breaking in the natural, healthy perception of what is 'good' and 'bad' and sustainable effects in the integrity of the body-feeling-brain connection, same as with any kind of abuse which by the adults then is named 'love' or 'okay' or 'good for you'. Normally, specialists would call this a trauma which, if remaining untreated, can cause an acute psychosis at any unforeseen time. In the socio-cultural context, all thes specialists keep their mouthes strictly shut, as they won't touch taboos., no matter whether this is related to common social or religious structures. That is why the Beast gets along and gets its ways.
I have been working for long enough with animals, and what I really appreciate about them is the direct, uncovered, open reactions they display.
The human brain though has the major problem of being so complex that on one hand it can evolve positively in amazing ways and on the other hand it is so fragile that it is as easily disturbed.
But back to the Collective Binge Eating Syndrome.
As this is just another, 'culturally' established promotion and maintenance of psychological conditioning for the purpose of easy steering, we alll will not have to wonder of one or the other of the guinea-pigs which are being part of a large-scale field experiment for several hundred years by now, will literally break.
The question is: Why don't we do our best to protect the infant boys in first instance? And why do we foster such abuse, well knowing that they will act like unguided missiles at any point and moment?
From anyone who is himself a victim of this traumatization, you can't expect the answers, so just forget it. It is an inbuilt defense mechanism any psychologist with only few semesters knows about that they will, the MUST tell everything is fine with them.
Just if you look at how helpless they themselves are in face of their own perpetrators, how much they will defend also them for doing the really 'best' for them, you may see how synchronously this correlates with all effects of the Stockholm Syndrome.
And, it is the time to ask questions, when Collective
Binge-Eating is cultivated to maintain a disorder people would rather need to get rid of as:
- 'Previous research has focused on the relationship between body image and eating disorders'
- 'However, other research suggests that binge eating disorder can also be
caused by environmental factors and the impact of traumatic events'
- 'Additionally, the research found that individuals who had binge eating
disorder were more likely to have experienced physical abuse, perceived
risk of physical abuse, stress, and body criticism'
- 'Other risk factors may include childhood obesity, critical comments
about weight, low self-esteem, depression, and physical or sexual abuse
in childhood'.
Well, there you have them all. Or would anyone assume that if his body obviously must be defect by birth if it needs correction, or anyone who must veil up herself as she obviously is not worth to be respected how she is born.
And another question which must arise is, besides collectively living out a psychiatric trait, why hide exactly from the sun.
Sun as Ra is him and Atum/Atem and Amun/Amen at the very same time.
So just naturally with regard to spiritual backgrounds, the question arises:
Why hiding a natural need (to eat) from the (spiritual) light?
If any god has made us well, why would anyone hide if not for obvious reasons?
Maybe, you have to get very much back in his-story. Whose story? Get it, just go and find out.
Just take care that I am often using the meaning of words on a different level of consciousness.
I have been thinking a lot once more, why all this bothers me so much. One reason is that since earliest childhood, I always wanted to learn and especially understand, and also in every healthy child the question 'why' arises automatically. Too many kids have experienced that this gift of asking has been driven out of them.
We should ask much more, actually.
And question.
And re-assess, from time to time.
Another reason might be that I am empathic with all those children, often children in disguise as they in fact are running around as physically adults, as I have had, like almost everyone, similar experiences in childhood myself. Some are making a business from that or take advantage of this fact in other ways, I don't like any of these approaches. I believe strongly that we are on this planet with the right to live, and to live in good ways. And we need one another, as social beings that we are.
Good ways means it must be good for everyone, every human is our brother or sister, and definitely, none of us can build societies all alone. Unfortunately, you can't even remain with your own personal biological brother or sister (or mother or father) if they themselves turn into abusers.
We have a choice, as mentioned, some don't in especially hopeless situations and they are always excused. But most people in societies and groups have a chance to open their mouthes, at least in some halfway safe situations. If not, we at least keep the light of knowing in our hearts and let it shine over to some other who need a glance from time to time, while our hearts are a place people can try to break, and they will do so many times and in many ways, but they can't enter unless laying down their weaponry.
All this got quite long by now, oops.
Mothers would have a lot of chances to innerly strengthen their kids. Both boys and girls. If they would not see them as instruments to be used for their personal purposes.
It just makes me angry realizing that so many people have not only given up themselves but also are following the traps layed out for them.
Have it in mind with some things to happen or come, if you want so.
Love - the children -
Lyn
