Rude? No.

If you might assume my last post to having been rude, I must tell you, it is not.

It is only a re-action of a very patient watcher of what is happening around, on long-lasting misfits in society.

Societies, none, won't get anything handled continuing these ways. It starts with how we breed and raise our children, how we educate and enable them - well, mostly disable more than anything else -, how we manage conflicts in constructive ways, how we solve problems which usually can be seen from far before they occur and so on and so forth.

As every action and reaction is intertwined, as everything depends on each atom or molecule within a system, the linear, hierarchical and monocausal approach, or call it duality, has overcome itself already long time ago. Still, it is powerful, and in its 'power' only destructive. Still, it creates illusions which keep on dragging every single being into being abused for the plans of others. It creates frameworks in which people imagine to be halfway safe, though the opposite they are.

Creation and problem fixing it has never learned, and will also never.

You can stuff baboons in dresses and suits, yet they remain baboons.

Funny that all these topics have been discussed decades ago, and just what was to be prevented, as we could have learned from negative examples and worked for much more positive ways, is manifesting itself. Dragons and Beasts rule.

Why the women/mothers issue.

Well, long time, as this is what I myself experienced over and over, I mainly observed male violence to be a root cause of societal problems and the hinderance for children growing in ways they could spread their wings, explore and learn to best handle this planet in all its richness and beauty. Beautiful and rich it is indeed, this is also something we need to learn, re-spect and see. It provides everything we, humans, and the whole creation would need to blossom and prosper well.

Though you can discuss a lot about what was first, the hen or the egg, it is most likely an intertwined, re-coupling reaction. Where males are violent, or just do only what they want to do each moment, women may become tricky to get what they want or need. Or it is the other way around, where women are tricky, men shut down listening to them, and become stubborn and, in case, violent. Each one tries to get their needs satisfied, and that is where children get into the game. Women abuse children, their own children, as much as men do, to satisfy their primary needs - the Dragon's - and their power drives, the Beast's ego.

Anyone who gets stuck on one of these levels, can actually never be satisfied. There is never an end to stuffing more and more into the Dragon's or the Beast's desires and sacrificing more and more of all that could end their mastery. Both will continue ruling the persons which they have under their control, and both won't learn. Learning would mean to question one's own former beliefs, and this constantly. Each time you question, logically, your framework is breaking down completely, like the ground you are standing on breaking away. Not a nice feeling, actually.

And yet, each new generation, each child born, would have the chance to change everything. If, yes IF, it was not for the each time present societies to break them down by breaking their integrity and will.

Mothers have a lot of Aces in these games.
Would have, actually.

Instead they, the majority not all, themselves feeling powerless try to gain power of those who are in turn weaker than themselves.

At a point, and when you realize how these games keep going on and on, if you yourself are more or less constantly struggling in and at a point against society which continues all this nonsense over and over, if you realize that all these days existing societies do nothing else than that, of course you get pissed some time.

We are right now experiencing, despite all human progress in technological and knowledge terms, that we are being pulled far back in everything. In thinking, solution-finding, constructive collaboration, respect of each one for the other, and so on and so forth. We are being pulled backwards just in every regard, including brain development. If I sometimes (or more often) mention that this organ is definitely the most sensitive treasure we have, I won't say that I cherish just sharp thinking. To the opposite, I cherish a good heart far more than a brilliant mind which abuses his or her genius in one or the other field for serving the purposes of greed or other related. A person with a good heart, with empathy where it is needed, saves probably lives all without any literacy or so-called education.

This era also shows how much every human collaboration sooner or later ends up in corruption and abuse when it is based in hierarchical structures driven by either the Dragon or the Beast or both of them.

Mothers, again back to them, could do a lot to at least trying to give a sense of love to at least their own children, better even, to any child around. It costs a gesture, a glance. Many though are infertile meanwhile, and this with very good reason. Nature would take care, just human thinks they have all rights.

All rights they don't - rights always come with duties, my dears.

Instead, and this is also pulling through the generations, they keep abusing their own sons to function as the vehicles what they themselves never tried to move or even touch.

Just while recently exploring the effect of the intentional childhood traumatization practiced under the 'cultural excuse', just a next mass lure exposes itself:

The Collective Binge Eating Season.

Every man who is affected and whom I know, and yes, I know lots of people from most varying backgrounds, else I would not dare to re-assess other backgrounds as I do with mine, too, is ultimately drawn to this inner-social event, the cosiness and feeling of safety with food and family.

Scientifically we know that especially sharing meals, eating together, is releasing bonding hormones.(

'Thus, oxytocin may reinforce prosocial behaviors after an initial bond is formed, but may enhance defensive behaviors to unfamiliar individuals'.

So no wonder that this is something that was 'culturally' instrumentalized for re-fixing the hostage relations which I had an in-depth understanding period of what and how it happens some time before.

While infants have a natural right of being protected by their natural parents and wider group, these are being offended, 'life-endangeringly bitten' from the point of view of any infant animal (and animals we are evolutionary, never forget!), by exactly those under whose protection they should naturally be, and in a next step over-celebrated.

Such causes quite logically a breaking in the natural, healthy perception of what is 'good' and 'bad' and sustainable effects in the integrity of the body-feeling-brain connection, same as with any kind of abuse which by the adults then is named 'love' or 'okay' or 'good for you'. Normally, specialists would call this a trauma which, if remaining untreated, can cause an acute psychosis at any unforeseen time. In the socio-cultural context, all thes specialists keep their mouthes strictly shut, as they won't touch taboos., no matter whether this is related to common social or religious structures. That is why the Beast gets along and gets its ways.

I have been working for long enough with animals, and what I really appreciate about them is the direct, uncovered, open reactions they display.

The human brain though has the major problem of being so complex that on one hand it can evolve positively in amazing ways and on the other hand it is so fragile that it is as easily disturbed.

But back to the Collective Binge Eating Syndrome.

As this is just another, 'culturally' established promotion and maintenance of psychological conditioning for the purpose of easy steering, we alll will not have to wonder of one or the other of the guinea-pigs which are being part of a large-scale field experiment for several hundred years by now, will literally break.

The question is: Why don't we do our best to protect the infant boys in first instance? And why do we foster such abuse, well knowing that they will act like unguided missiles at any point and moment?

From anyone who is himself a victim of this traumatization, you can't expect the answers, so just forget it. It is an inbuilt defense mechanism any psychologist with only few semesters knows about that they will, the MUST tell everything is fine with them.

Just if you look at how helpless they themselves are in face of their own perpetrators, how much they will defend also them for doing the really 'best' for them, you may see how synchronously this correlates with all effects of the Stockholm Syndrome.

And,  it is the time to ask questions, when Collective Binge-Eating is cultivated to maintain a disorder people would rather need to get rid of as:

• 'Previous research has focused on the relationship between body image and eating disorders'
• 'However, other research suggests that binge eating disorder can also be caused by environmental factors and the impact of traumatic events'
• 'Additionally, the research found that individuals who had binge eating disorder were more likely to have experienced physical abuse, perceived risk of physical abuse, stress, and body criticism'
• 'Other risk factors may include childhood obesity, critical comments about weight, low self-esteem, depression, and physical or sexual abuse in childhood'.

Well, there you have them all. Or would anyone assume that if his body obviously must be defect by birth if it needs correction, or anyone who must veil up herself as she obviously is not worth to be respected how she is born.

And another question which must arise is, besides collectively living out a psychiatric trait, why hide exactly from the sun.

Sun as Ra is him and Atum/Atem and Amun/Amen at the very same time.

So just naturally with regard to spiritual backgrounds, the question arises:

Why hiding a natural need (to eat) from the (spiritual) light?

If any god has made us well, why would anyone hide if not for obvious reasons?

Maybe, you have to get very much back in his-story. Whose story? Get it, just go and find out.
Just take care that I am often using the meaning of words on a different level of consciousness.

I have been thinking a lot once more, why all this bothers me so much. One reason is that since earliest childhood, I always wanted to learn and especially understand, and also in every healthy child the question 'why' arises automatically. Too many kids have experienced that this gift of asking has been driven out of them.

We should ask much more, actually. 

And question. 

And re-assess, from time to time. 

Another reason might be that I am empathic with all those children, often children in disguise as they in fact are running around as physically adults, as I have had, like almost everyone, similar experiences in childhood myself. Some are making a business from that or take advantage of this fact in other ways, I don't like any of these approaches. I believe strongly that we are on this planet with the right to live, and to live in good ways. And we need one another, as social beings that we are.

Good ways means it must be good for everyone, every human is our brother or sister, and definitely, none of us can build societies all alone. Unfortunately, you can't even remain with your own personal biological brother or sister (or mother or father) if they themselves turn into abusers.

We have a choice, as mentioned, some don't in especially hopeless situations and they are always excused. But most people in societies and groups have a chance to open their mouthes, at least in some halfway safe situations. If not, we at least keep the light of knowing in our hearts and let it shine over to some other who need a glance from time to time, while our hearts are a place people can try to break, and they will do so many times and in many ways, but they can't enter unless laying down their weaponry.



All this got quite long by now, oops.

Mothers would have a lot of chances to innerly strengthen their kids. Both boys and girls. If they would not see them as instruments to be used for their personal purposes.

It just makes me angry realizing that so many people have not only given up themselves but also are following the traps layed out for them.

Have it in mind with some things to happen or come, if you want so.

Love - the children -
Lyn

Wanna CU

... hanging.

Hanging from the lanterns in the main street, everywhere around the globe.

You

... who have been cheating your next when she or he needed your support and you just thought you are special because you can refuse a help that was precisely asked for.

... who both males and females were living from the power of the women who brought up the children of this world all alone and without any support ever while your kind had nothing better to do to than interfere and destroy precious work of building up a healthy, next generation.

You had free choice. We were facing you openly and without any tools in our hands.
This is what you have chosen for the sake of greed, illusional power and vanity.

For the moment I think this is enough. And more is there to come.

I hope GOD boils you slowly.

As you do to others, on and on spoiling their lives on this planet.

We all have only one, and the fact that YOU are making only the worst from it is NOT OUR fault. It is yours. You are being measured by how you measure us. As simple as that.


We are all entwined. Obviously, you didn't notice though it is obvious for decades, for centuries, for millenia.

Your prob, actually. 

There was enough time to notice, and many a hints good people tried to give.


Am I hating?

Yes, I do.

For half a century of loving only, getting back only being ripped and humiliated.

As so many others, together with me, who were sent to make you wonder.

Lyn

Equality Misunderstood

Equality means we all got equal rights and dignity. Principally.

Some understand it though and try to force it in a way to make everyone the same. 
A kind of militantly demanded uniformity diagonally opposing the natural principle of diversity. 

Well, if you downgrade genes for long enough time by taking out the best you probably have a similar effect.

Yet, nature is an intelligence in its own kind and over billions of years well prepared to correct this effect creatively when mixing up genes of persons who identify one another by what they are naturally equipped with as as good instincts.

This is what usually is called deeply falling in love: with heart and mind and body, of course, too.

This would bring together people who at least would have a bond to overcome and work on solutions by a strong and energy-creating connection, and a side-effect is the mix up of genes in a self-repairing way. The ability is a gift of nature for recreating nature in healthy ways and also in ways which are good for diversity which in turn is fundamental for the species to carry on in changing environments.

Of course you may abandon this principle and try to 'create' humans of your own.

And this has been done so effectively for obviously thousands of years.

One measure is that parents or family or even a person chosen for such tasks may arrange the coupling with no regard to the feelings of the affected. Another is to pre-pare both male and female offspring mentally to not follow their hearts but select by calculating (materials, social status etc.), another mental preparation as mentioned exhaustively is misleading the natural skillset meant for allowing the man-woman bond into the parent/child-of-the-other-sex bonds which are so common in so many so-called 'cultures'.

And a last destructive measure on top is to bring together non-diverse, homogenous genes, as is arranged with steered inbreeding. (It's a kind of taboo topic though still but must be addressed by science at a point certainly. Not for finding other crazy ways to breed, certainly not, but for helping it stop by a rising awareness, and switch to re-detecting the principle of partner choice by love, not by pressures or mental misguidance.)

All these are interesting in terms of producing unhappy humans who will only be happy to infect others with their own unhappiness. And have to fill up with stuff continuously, to overlay the emptiness.

From unhappiness, no creation, no creativity takes place
As unhappiness is eating up All necessary space.

One of the major problems with this human streamlining, the attempt to 'make all people the same' and which cannot be solved is that, as you can barely upgrade a VW to be a Rolls Royce, the result will be a downgrade of everyone and everything (looks quite as if EP and EC was at work.)

We should love and cherish and greet diversity, there is no competition between things that are different. Those could collaborate easily by respecting each one the other's abilities.

Unless competition instead of collaboration is installed by purpose. 

A major feature of innecessary competition is caused by useless mass breeding, just like an experiment in which you place too many rats or whatever animal you can imagine in a too small cage.

We suffer from masses and quantities with a severe lack of qualities, altogether.

No child, no parent benefits from it, but just some rigid systems of misleadership which need low-level, easy to steer human masses for political manoeuvres. Please find out yourself who are those who are encouraging or forcing women to remain dumb and deliver and who really become mad at those who reject to do so. Mad in brutal ways, or tricky ways - to detect the latter you need to have learned to look behind the masks and tricks. For men it's the same. Search and detect the principles and actors behind what makes you rush and nevertheless never be satiesfied however much you have or think that you can take or buy.

Stay deaf, dumb and blind and deliver. 

As almost all do, kicking out off their way each other ruthlessly.

For those I am not writing, those are already dead and deads can't read or understand anything anyway. Those expose their nature when they think they hold the trump cards, can gain some goods or gain some fame which both are not theirs. Just check it out and you will see. And if you see them doing so to others with no good reason, don't think they will act differently towards you personally just because at this very moment they have no trumps against you. One day they will, and then it's your turn if you let them do what they do right now.

Or we can become what we are meant to be.
Equal in All Our Diversity.

And, as this is necessary to say:

Left who calls itself left is not left, it is right in disguise. Just quarelling for power with the other rights. But right is left, since the underhanded slaughtering of Abel. Got?

Again, just thoughts.
Lyn

Very Strange Times

It is in the air. 

It is very strange times, lots of frequencies and frictions since some days before recent full moon.

You could notice in people not standing it and freaking out, not anymore able to keep the pressure inside. I have always said it is no good thing burying the stuff. It is us, we as one for the other of us, who can work it out, together, in trust and just a little start of openness. Unfortunately, they who have never known don't know about this option, they hit the next one just available. The only thing they can never erase that way is the rumbling inside themselves. It will not go away that way.

Lets try to survive.

In my mind, I am writing books. But only in my mind. Many things reveal now their true identity. We have found the last ones who were to be found.

Now it is up to them. We have done our best, I guess.  You can't stop Lemmings by building fences to hinder them jumping off the cliff. As humans, we all have got free will, this is our default setting and the way we are delivered, and it is us to use this feature.


Lots of Love.
Lyn

In the Beginning

In the Beginning, they arranged men into marriages which made them easy to function well, not to become too bold and to work off their asses to feed their families and be exhausted then when coming home.

Now, they don't have to do that anymore.

Men are functioning well, never are becoming too bold, they are working off their asses, are exhausted when the get home .. without families.

Now they have 689 tv channels, the internet and smartphones which have taken over that form of control. Men now can order anything they wish on line with the money the have worked their asses off for.

From the article: 'The digital impact of behavioral imprinting at early stage and through the ages'.



Kidding, Just came into my mind ;-)

Have a good new week then,
Yours,
Lyn

Mean While.

Meanwhile, I notice that, maybe due to the packed situation we are getting into more and more and still scientists deny, the negative aspects in so-called civilized humans are just rising and rising.

The too-many-rats-in-a-cage-effect shows clearer and clearer.

Humanism is a nice thing. People have free will. Not everybody, of course, people in extreme situations have no choice at all, yet some even manage in such situations to stand in for values they consider life worth. This deserves the highest respect and I wish for them, whether in this or the next world, that their hearts may be smoothed and their souls caressed.

From the perspective of a halfway still standing Europe though as we (still) have. I am aware of the fact that also here many people are just fighting for survival, I have had such experiences personally during several stages in my life, and the hardest when raising little children. I talk to all kind of people anywhere and I got my eyes, ears and certainly my heart open.

Therefore, I even less can accept persons who have quite a lot but are not aware or grateful at all, and yet are trying to catch the fish not by themselves but from the boat of those who have much less or sometimes nothing at all. 

If you once had the idea and ideal that mankind can move forward in developing better social and collaborative skills and also rise in awareness, this creates a huge delta then. 

If you have no ideals, never had, and anyway regard mankind as a bunch of greedy apes, it probably won't hurt you.

Awareness though is what is rapidly going down.

Of course it is logical that if I already criticize most couple but also other kind of relations as a kind of business deal respective prostitution where one part is selling its goods to the other at the highest price, which has to me nothing in common with partner-ship or even so-called 'love' relation or even relation at all, I would as well address and name the more aggressive form which is intruding and causing a huge backlash for civil evolution.

Bullies are taking over, more and more, additionally they are rushing to where the good is, taking what others have built and created, and as outlined many times before: No intelligence can beat the sheer bully. 

The last post is on what gets more and more obvious recently. It is a highly stressed competition of each one for him or as in this case, for her self - the opposite of any civilized collaboration, we are getting pushed into an estate where everyone is the next enemy to the next. If you are aware of that mankind has developed thus far by especially NOT fighting each one for itself but by respect, communication and high level collaboration skills, you can imagine and know the consequences.

Who 'sees' this may refrain. Who 'sees not' will go on.
The logical outcome is that idiots beat intelligence.

Women, especially the lesser blessed with brains (while academic certificates meanwhile have no worth anymore, especially not in this regard - any idiot can fill his or her brain with data and spit them out in a learned professional manner but be incapable of thinking well) and inertly developed  strength, are thus more eager to let a man do the work for her and create herself an easy life. Their skills went another way: they'd become much more tricky to achieve their personal goals than any man can ever assume.

Men (boys, to be precise) have another system among each other of getting along and are quite helpless to notice signs and signals which are appealing either to basic instincts (red lips, blonde hair, certain invitational moves, also seen in business more and more, and other key triggers) or over-generational psychological traps by hostage conditioning (certain tonality of speaking or body language, bargaining attention only for doing certain favours and more). Here you may have to connect information from my earlier writing, they still function on the triggers that left them helpless and usually was never overcome, passed on through generations. Those females, themselves from social systems of an earlier stage, now well how to (ab-) use this fact.

And it works. The whole thing works even better in context with the factors as described above: rising pressures and competition diminish the ability to think logically and on the younger, further developed brain parts.

By this stress, humans are driven to the lower brain functionalities, just that easy. And that is also why yo just have to raise this level to get people mentally down easily.

That type has existed before but was much less and especially less openly aggressive than it occurs these days.Which shows a lot where we are moving to. And it is logical, again - those who did not develop humanly step by step and phase by phase are 'learning' techniques but not the processing units which would be necessary for steering a vehicle without constantly causing crashes in dense traffic.

Another troubling element  is the group effect and additional social pressures. 

When one runs there is in the herd animal a strong tendency to run with the group. It takes a lout of consciousness to step out of inborn instincts and deeply implanted early conditioning.

Finding of some days before and with regard to how difficult it is to step out of any latent violent social system, an excellent article in The Guardian,

'Losing their religion: the hidden crisis of faith among Britain’s young Muslims'.

Some excerpts:

"He doesn’t want to be any more specific than that about the location. “If someone found out where I lived,” he explains, “they could burn my house down.”"

"Last week the hacking to death in Bangladesh of the blogger Ananta Bijoy Das was a brutal reminder of the risks atheists face in some Muslim-majority countries"

"What worries me is that they go back to my parents and damage them, because that’s not unheard of."

"It is stigma and rejection that causes so many ex-Muslims to conceal their apostasy."

(And add to this the intentionally inflicted traumata I had been writing on before, and its effects on personal inner development which makes it hard if not impossible to overcome as also the relevant symbiosis stage and fundamental trust had been severely effected - by purpose.)

"All through his teenage years, when adolescents typically rebel, and even at university, Vali dutifully followed his father’s faith." 

(Remember, this rebellion is a really relevant stage, and also undermined in Western educational system.)

"Instead he was ousted from the family. He was disowned."

(We know this is re-traumatization by purpose, a repeated experience of the childhood loss of safety and protection any child in my eyes, but also as defined in the UN Convention on Children's Rights, has the just natural right for. As adult though you may see through the mechanism, even if it is extremely difficult as this is one of the very effective triggers implanted in a human being.)

"Although it is fraught with human drama – existential crisis, philosophical doubt, family rupture, violent threats, communal expulsion, depression, and all manner of other problems – the apostate’s journey elicits remarkably little media interest or civic concern."

(Exactly what I also ask for though on a more cross-discipline level as this topic is a cross-functional and requires the elements of the whole system working hand in hand. Though it is a very hot potato, as we know. Everyone openly dealing with these topics might expose him or herself to threats and isolation.)

"To raise the subject of apostasy is to risk demonising an embattled minority. Some will see it, almost by definition, as Islamophobic or even racist."

(Well, only because many Western politicians are cowards who are frightened to face reality, and also bear a 'Mental Inbreed Problem'. As I say, inbreed has no good and kills diversity. Unfortunately, exactly this mentality of covering up will cause what they and also any free person in the West fear, with each denial more and more. The same mechanism as described before here is at work: Bullies beat intelligence, foresight and creation.)

"Vali has seen his mother just once for a few minutes four years ago. “She didn’t want to touch me,” he says. “She thought her God would be angry with her if she treated me kindly.”"

(Exactly this: punished with withdrawal of love, while at the same time those kids had been ripped off their fundamental trust in their natural right for protection by their mothers; remember my anger with those women who can not realize love even at the sight of the most wonderful gift of life. Though I certainly understand everyone is victim in that destructive game.)

The article perfectly describes the complex system which entangles the persons within. And also points out the connection the psychological effects, see:

"“I’ve had bouts of clinical depression,” Nasreen says. “The thing is, Islam teaches you to grow up with low self-esteem and lack of self-identity. Without the collective, you’re lost."

Which surely holds true both for males and females though females have to additionally face other and more kind of violation and yes, in a 'culture' where she has to show her attitude by dressing up in certain ways, it gets more visible and she exposes herself much more. Also a part of the tricky system and probably while my intuition had told me well what's good and bad when even my brain could not yet name the open offense to freedom. People still think the dress code is traditional. A shit it is, it is part of the suppressive system to keep humans in depression to keep them easily steerable.

In the end, we need to find out that it is definitely love, not that what we have learned to assume that is, but a deep love from very deep inside we have to detect all by ourselves, that can give us, as a whole, the chance to overcome. It is a tricky game though. The world does not look like it is willing to explore this way. The polyp like system is set up so tricky that it takes ages to look through, as other polyp like systems, too.

As it looks, it is definitely much easier to grow up with less 'collective identity' and find yourself your own. Wandering (and wondering) between the worlds might be troubling, yet it provides a lot of chances, too.

Isn't it always amazing that those who are pushing forward the ideology stronger and stronger, always argue with the humanistic standard of 'Freedom of Religion' which the 'religion' itself does not provide for its own kids?

Double standard would be too weak a term. It is hypocrisy at its best.

Enjoy thinking about it if you like so.
If not, keep on going but try to suppress the 'Moooh'. It would become too obvious.



Cheers,
Lyn

"Ain't no Love"

"Ain't no love in the heart of the city, stay safe people."

Obvious a tweet of a young man entangled in his own hostage situation which led to unguided outburst of self-hate on uninvolved third parties. I am sorry. To me the whole thing going on each time sounds like a kind of 'and another little baby child is born ... in the ghetto'. 

Not to take the term ghetto literally, please, more to be seen as a metaphor. The ghetto though is the 'ghetto inside'. Created by mischief.

For me it usually works that way that if I am breeding on a question in mind it takes some time, and I will be lead to the answers, on various ways. Whether I like the surrounding circumstances is another issue, usually I get into something which involves me with all heart and brain and physically, logical when those are not disconnected. While I can certainly state for the strange kind of culture I grew up in, lucky enough to receive plenty of comparative information, that it still carries lots of unresolved traumata from past generations, anyone seriously interested in complex inter-reactions latest since last year must have started to deal with what is going on with a complete, so-called cultural, group whose mainly young males are so easily to misguide. Not that others are not misguided - of course they are, each by an individual story of inner-familial, usually psychological abuse. Else you could not explain why people are considering other people to not exist but as objects, and the cause is most usually a block in a healthy psychological and emotional development, combined with uncontrolled greed ('wanna have') and narcissistic grandiosity ('wanna be' + 'control'). 

People who have not overcome these feelings by knowing who they are, what they really need and how to stand on own feet will always remain in a status of dependency, a child status which may never turn adult which means become a 'man' or 'woman'. or 'human' as a whole. Puberty is not an easy change, additionally, but next, remaining in the 'revolting' phase means also not to become free - it only means to always be against, which means you can't go FOR what you really want. Also in this stage, many are stuck.

If you don't turn into an adult, you can't experience ever real - not peer-group or reactive - friendship and also not love between a man and woman either but only repetitions of the implanted hostage situations. Then, also anyone is probably your enemy (while in real life, certainly there is other reason enough to consider someone enemy for what he has done. Here, it is more about the fantasized enemies - which can become real enemies, certainly). Most logically that in such underdeveloped estate one should never make children oneself .... but again this is a theoretical idea because people grow physically into men and women but usually never mind- and heart-wise. 

Our 'cultures' are the hindrance - the Western as the Eastern, just the same. We can pick out and keep the good parts, though, and abandon what makes sick.

As long as we as humans, generally, keep on going the same old ways, there truly won't be love in the hearts. Only the latter would form civilizations and cultures worth the title. What we have created and live in now, globally, is a disaster and whoever has not noticed by now must be emotionally blind.

My empathy, love, sorrow and mourning for every single of those victims, and the victims of the victims. And the victims of the victims of the victims ....... as every single child was certainly not born for that kind of fruit. Please understand well that to me this is no excuse either. I have often enough suffered myself physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially and whatever kind of under the deeds of such mislead humans. But it is for me relevant to at least understand, which is not the same as excusing. what leads to another. 

Only if we under-stand we might be able to act preventative and find better ways. 

Something interesting I tracked with regard to male circumcision, an underestimated source of unhealed as yet underestimated trauma, these days:

Ritual circumcision and risk of autism spectrum disorder in 0- to 9-year-old boys

Results: With a total of 4986 ASD cases, our study showedthat regardless of cultural background circumcised boys were more likely than intact boys to develop ASD before age 10 years. Risk was particularly high for infantile autism before age five years.

Circumcised boys in non-Muslim families were also more likely to develop hyperkinetic disorder.

Just something to consider further. 

I really think there should be much more research on the psychological, sociological and psychosomatic inter-connections and long-term effects of this early childhood traumatization.


For myself, I am glad that whatever had happened to me, and life here was not very kind to me anyway, I always kept on wondering and that I always was connected to the 'other' world which knows, while we in this world are more supposed to 'not know', and which allowed me to re-assemble each time, and probably saved a lot in my children, and some others, too. 

And I am glad, the more the more I learn about the issue, that my instincts have made me protect my boy child from that ritual traumatization, even if I have paid a high price myself fighting that violator who was, most funny of all, heavily supported by state authority in all of his moves to break and pursue a mother of small children. Honestly. Shame on a society which calls itself guided by Human Rights and on its dark side does such to their healthy mothers instead of being glad that at least someone is mother enough to protect her child from useless violation. And myself I am very glad to have learned mothering from a cat and not a human mother. It can be difficult, but nevertheless most often healthy to step out of chains and vicious circles, indeed.

Yet, I understand (not justify!) that the broken hate un-brokenness for itself. 

Because if the would allow, the would have to admit their own brokenness, and mourn about what they have not had or what they lost. This is to be prevented, sustainably, be their implicit 'Ego-Defence-League'. Or, as the demon said: 'You can call me Legion, as we are many'.

No one of us can turn around the past but each of us can do better. Not always perfect, as we are on the go - and we also need to forgive ourselves where we could not make it but we tried, at least. Yet, I see a lot of people fighting for the better, risking their lives, status, material and physical integrity. These are the heroes and heroines, actually.

Someone, standing for so many others, who wanted to become a lion but yet remained a cub, will be executed for the deeds of his mother who was not mother to protect and teach her children well. 

One among many, many others in the chain.

All those boys who never were and will be allowed to become men, always and forever be personal hostages, never allowed to find out about love, they are blood sacrifices of slave women breeding slaves. Even despite the gift of life in their hands should have awakened them. I understand they are victims themselves - but also that they make it just too easy.

Yet, a few examples show that also this can be survived though generally rather not. These exceptions though are no good reason for mankind to keep going on with purposely violating and mutilating children's souls. If an old man once upon the time had suffered from phimosis, it's his personal thing. Just like so perfectly persiflaged in 'The Life of Brian', because Brian coincidentally has lost his sandal, all 'follwers' are taking off their sandals. Hum.

Why I am writing all of this? Because it is heart-breaking if you look into the souls of wonderful persons and have to find that they will always choose the painful way just due to what has been done to them - by their 'culture' but also by their 'mothers' who have let it happen, and thus do not deserve such title at all. Of course, there is all other repression around. 

For a human child though, like for a baby lion or any baby mammal, the mother who is the primary protection freely giving the cub away for ritual violation is forever deeply engraved.

The best we maybe can do (when shit has already happened) is to find out and understand that blood line is for the soul more or less coincidental, thus retrieve our very own right to live according to our soul-selves and not pursue what our ancestors have messed up. Yet, I think that this world is quite through and this might only help as a preparation for after the big disaster. We only can do what we can do but yet need to have tried our very best, at least.

Anyway, we should have in mind:

They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you. 

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls ...

... but protect their bodies and souls. 
What they will do later is another chapter.

Could have become a lion, could have become a wise owl, or a Raven, or ...  - we don't know. 

But what we know is that they never become men and women if we - parents and the whole society, too - don't do our very best to guide them well and support them to become 'humanes'.

Keep going, heart pure and head high, with lots of love and strength for whatever happens,

Lyn