26 February 2014

Cocktail Addicts

Besides the marvelous term 'cultural trance' which I learned about recently, I also learned about the possibility that cells, those little drunkards, are having a tendency for addiction, Drug-addiction,  more precisely: a cocktail-addiction.

This connection is very interesting because it could help to understand why people are so much in trouble getting out of swamps they learned to live in. No matter how this swamp may look like - it always remains a swamp. Swamp with some nicer trees standing around or swamps with a view, or swamps with the nicest sunsets .... they all have one thing in common. Now guess what.

All this search of connections derives certainly from looking around, seeing how the world is being turned by people who especially seek power over resources, and yes, over energy from others far beyond a kind of 'normal need', this would make anyone wonder why this happens over and over and people do not seem to get out - even despite all achievements regarding literacy, halfway education, and all kind of books and good reads being available to a degree as never before.

With me, this wondering had started at a quite early age, then for a while I clearly thought there would be some move - and then, swoosh, everything went back to start and even worse if you look at majorities.


Where the idea was that people grow together, one giving a hand to the other and vice versa, people separated even more up to severe isolation - which they don't feel because they have lost their senses for feeling.

Where they vision was a connectedness, most people went for choosing their options to get more out for themselves. Anyone wants to be a king and queen, just no one has the background and 'e-ducation'.


Any single person might be acting acceptable if he or she is facing someone or some issue alone (at least, before it has received its introjects - remember, these start early already in womb) - as soon as systems start to engage, any formerly good person might swap personality just like a transformer, just like being taken over by 'another power'.

If you try to explain the individual evolution as being a sample of the whole evolution, physically and psychologically, then you get to wonder why it is so easy to get any person back to some kind of extremely early and primitive estate so easily.

Anyone who is interested  would assume that in a civilized and organized society with lots of rules which were born from the need to give such rules to people who would NOT understand by empathy or by having learned by role-models in their early lives. Today we have all kinds of organizations and institutions who should watch over those rules, and yet, all those rules are overridden regularly and even by and within these organizations who should care. How comes? Well. all those questions all the time ...

At least I found something interesting once more which adds another piece to the puzzle. Before, it was clear that people learn by role models, and also that they learn the estate they are born into. This estate is difficult to leave - for anyone. But it is healthy to get out of the same old soup, as only then, when you know different kinds of soup, you may start to ponder and get some ideas what you want. Mostly, people born in pumpkin soup will look for pumpkin soup, and they have well adapted to pumpkin soup. Other may dwell in asparagus cream ... others in tomato with rice, again others in Tom Yum or Borscht. Which soup is yours?

Whatever it is, you will probably be well adapted from early childhood on. 


  • Not only metabolisms we inherit genetically but also 
  • a profound package of home-bred bacteria in and around us transferred, some which help, some which can cause even personality changes (see here or here or here for further information - or just track it yourself if interested). 
  • Plus we 'inherit' habits named 'culture', from early childhood on. We are being pressed, no matter what our purpose on this planet might have been, into family culture - behaviors, food and health habits, 'atmospheres' -, local culture, regional culture, national culture and so forth.
  • As No.4 in this package ... we get used to and adapt to chemical cocktails, starting with the biochemicals which we are exposed to in our mother's womb, and all those we adapt to later in life. 

Now comes the interesting part: WE might think none of this matters, or that we get along with all of this very well. In reality, we are addicted, secretly. In the background of what we think we are, our CELLS have gotten used to the cocktails of hormones and neurotransmitters.

Our cells are junkies, to be precise.


The following you may apply to any kind of abuse - not only narcissistic. Abuse of any kind causes trauma. This abuse may be physical - which is much easier to detect, name and emancipate from - or psychological.
As laid out in some posts before ... anything that may cause a child to fear for its life is traumatic.

Such, almost all human beings on this planet ARE traumatized in one way or the other.

Into this group belongs as well all the various ways of NOT being cared for in appropriate ways, sometimes even ridiculing the child or baby for healthy emotions  as happens in many ways and often is sanctified by 'culture', so the environment a being grows up in and forces it to deny and ignore.

To KNOW about it nevertheless provides a chance to work on it.




For each person by being careful with oneself, understanding their full being including the animal, our precious vehicle which runs wild and turns into a beast when just  ignored or suppressed - and also for each other by giving warmth, not cold.

Warmth - is active energy.
Cold - is rejection and loneliness.

And for a child a cause to die.

We are mammals, forgot? Our strength is our energy we can create and the emotional nurture, the care and shelter we receive as little ones. Can you feel yourself as that baby you once were?


When you start having empathy with that child, it gets impossible to not sense also others - as this child is overall connected with everything around with widest opened senses.


I have not checked out whether the precise connection of biochemical causes in this video is accepted or stringent according to the general 'scientific' opinion - the latter more and more to be a 'truth by mainstream and agreement'. As you know, for me this is not truth at all. What is really true we all have to find out piece by piece ... and in the meantime, life presents us the topics for us each one to work on if we allow it to flow.

The vid actually is very logic to me as just this moment, I am working on just a 'little trauma' and I just realize once more how long-term impact even little painful events have if not treated properly and right in time. In this my case a tooth and the surrounding tissue which seem to want to 'remember' the estate they have been in for quite some time - and want their drug cocktail they got so nicely used to.

I will work with them ... my cells, to let go and convince them that the relaxed mode is the much better one. So see, this little shit happens at any time and to anyone. The point is just to realize - and then we can do something about it, even if it might take some time.

As a Shiatsu practitioner (learned but for understanding not for trying to make money with it though my kids benefit), once you are set on a track you will also find physically/energetically the rest of the connections. I had had a similar 'wow-effect' quite some time ago when I just 'forgot', due to other pressures, to give appropriate attention to the twin my son would have been born together with but who was reabsorbed. This shows how sensitive the psychological-spiritual or 'other world' indeed is.

Mankind may continue to ignore the connectivity of these layers - just that you can't continue ignoring 'what is' without receiving an appropriate 'answer' at a point. In this regard:

Good morning, East, good evening, West. 

Or learn and pick out what is Best.


(Just don't let the reptiles do this.)

For me and from my point if view, just another good reason to question the ways we live and what we pass on to our children and to our environment in general.

Lots of Energies, Yes'es & Love.

Lyn

With special thanks to
Melanie Tonia Evans (the lady who created the vids)
A precious compilation.

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