I find it amazing how sometimes I know what comes without this could be possible at all, according to 'logical' thinking. Maybe it is so clear that the truth and information about it is everywhere, available around us. Just that in 'normal' situations and the ways we got used to live, focused on certain fields of interest, is ignoring or denying until it comes and truth reveals in clarity, performed like a piece of theater acted out by actors who act like robots and schemes.
Ignoring and denial are habits that make us 'not see' even what lurks around and is just waiting to strike. Yet, we know - without seeming to know.
Well, I had my encounter of another kind in the early morning hours of the day which is named 'Silvester'. Silvester derives from 'Silva' - woods. A nice metaphor for what actually happened. The wood opened and showed the trees - the breed out of darkness of societies; one society 'mine' but I know I don't belong to it for quite a while, and the other of what cutting off instinct does to its children.
It also gets clearer each day that no one can stop violence by tolerating intolerance.
'Tolerating' is simply the wrongest one can do when facing anyone who considers intolerance of rights and violence towards at least one half of mankind as legal.
We have plenty of politicians who cover up their lack of courage by naming this concept 'tolerance'. In reality, this is sheer laziness and comfort to take position where it would be necessary combined with fear and lack of a sense of what is just. They close their eyes and hope that the problem will just pass by. They flee internally and externally and still believe they are a kind of 'ethical' leaders. No such they are - if they can not protect the most vulnerables when violated which is part of any social pact.
Ignoring, denying, even imposing muzzles and handcuffs to those who speak out when violence is happening while watching is just another form of violence. There is good reason why so many constitutions include punishment for failure to render assistance.
The only way to stop it this terrible increase of imported violance is to make clear how people CAN live together on this beautiful planet, and yes, there are plenty of people who show that we can.
There are many wounds, imposed by one generation onto the next, which need to be opened and seen as what they are; and wounds is what they are.
Children exposed to violation of their selves and their integrity ...
... will, in the worst but also the most common case, over-adapt to their violators including adopting doctrines of those - as mentioned in many posts before, it is a kind of mechanism for surviving.
Any healthy parent, man or woman, would logically try to prevent their offspring from getting violated - if not, and this is an intra- and intercultural problem, just the same had been done to them, and the have arranged with this specific kind of violence. Here is where the problem is.
In some 'cultures' these blind spots refer to major lack of cosiness and direct support or protection which as mammals we all need; in others, it refers to direct violence performed by those who are supposed to shelter their very own kids.
Direct violence is any violation of physical or psychological, mental and emotional integrity.
In severe experiences like wars, which regrettably are re- and re- and re-initiated, at least you think you know who is the enemy and you will turn against those individuals. Terrible enough to understand another human (or any) being as an enemy.
In 'cultural' context, you are violated by you own kin and not being protected by those who are supposed to do so - which leaves the highly intelligent human being terribly broken and mislead
Any child in this world is born with a natural right that, usually, their parents, family or group will protect them from harm and from being violated.
The prob is that most parents on this globe have themselves experienced violence, in various forms.
Directly, by open, visible violence against their bodies and emotions.
Passively, by experiencing their closest protectors not helping them when they were violated.
Indirectly, by having learned that no one acts when someone else is violated.
And the worst, all these together including being told
it is to their very best and thanks to that trauma they now are really special and higher than those without.
This is the most perverted form of violence which breaks the wholeness of the person - at young age and without a chance to escape if having to remain in such environment and belief.
By the mechanism of ignoring or denying, which is fostered in many cultures just in different ways, those parents will NOT protect their children against what they themselves have integrated as it has traumatized them in the very same ways.
When then this pain is lifted to be 'good' (while, of course, violation of integrity is is never, this causing a kind of devil-worship-mentality while believing you serve good ... a real mental disaster) and what is commonly accepted just because 'it has always been this way' (tradition) or because an or some self-declared 'leaders' have indoctrinated over long times.
Betraying their own children due to
- own integrated denial and
- sociological pressures
is just the same as the metaphors of
sacrificing ones own children and
sacrificing virgins for the dragon.
Think in pictures and you get near.
Babylon is today and is a mental state - voodooistic blood (life energy) sacrifice is going on and on.
And those supposed to protect don't act.
Gorgeous civilization we have.
It is time to wake up and understand that any violation which we have experienced, wanted or not wanted by those who acted out, has been violation which can not be ignored or denied.
If we continue to close our eyes, we are sanctifying violence and are new violators creating new violators, and so forth.
This is a time where there is not only a war between men and women, depending on 'cultural' backgrounds fought out in very various and sometimes subliminal ways, but also times of war against our own children.
Imagine little boys, same innocent as any little boy around the globe.
Apart from
- often enough lack of proper nutrition, sometimes chemical stress, sometimes stress induced by simply difficult life circumstances which require struggling for existence
- add stress hormones induced completely unnecessarily in his mother, contra nature - healthy instinct would induce a man or male to protect and shelter pregnant and offspring
- plus indoctrination he has already started to receive from an environment which lets him know that he is superior 'by nature' (I don't want to go deeper for same issue on little girls ... as this is another topic and very, very destructive towards LIFE itself, so let's just think of the boys for this moment) ...
... who is
methodically 'incised' (circumcised, correctly but I know why I am using 'incised' here) at a development stage where age-appropriate black-and-white-thinking would start to open up and diminish by a development stage of curiosity and learning to differentiate. Such, you incise and cut off the human developmental line ... the body and physical may grow, the soul or socio-emotional development is stopped.
Any human, especially as a child, can be broken, and any human being can be stopped and taken away from further socio-emotional development by inducing severe trauma at a certain stage.
Read up what serious psychologists have written on this issue ... and pick out the pieces of truth. I need to say this because sometimes studies are correct regarding some issues or a core, but also approved scientists are only humans and part of traumatized social contexts so that they inflict their emotions into a piece of what is supposed to be 'scientific'. It is here not about pointing on other ethnics ... I am pointing often enough and strongly enough at the own sick culture I have to live in and its heritage of trauma which we need to overcome. Yet, not even near to being out of it, certain mechanisms are driving us much further back. I am far from blaming anyone of conspiracy ... but it looks like a kind of system-inherent and we got to drive it out, thanks to some developments in the past maybe some more aware of how systematic trauma works.
Then
- nurture those fears by an early violation experience by well-dosed, re-traumatizing events like further violation
- methodically re-direct hatred against persons who could have been expected to protect the child, who was expected to give them relief and shelter,
- 'help' them to project this hate of not having been protected on a whole gender,
- and teach them how to transform this hatred by projecting their self-hate and hate on their parents (who did neither protect them but even told them that the pain was 'good' because of social fear to oppose the mob), on others ... ... and you got it:
a never-ending war of in such ways treated individuals against - All.
The schizophrenic part about it is that these kids do not know anymore by healthy observation what is right and what is wrong. For observing in healthy ways, full integrity would be required.
Those are cut-off from natural instinct, and completely cut-off from healthy male behaviour.
Connections which are supposed to function are disconnected from a soul which was, like any other, born by the miracles and beauty of life itself.
What you get is robots - here and there.
And in this case, they can easily be indoctrinated that this hate against 'all that is' is directly connected to All-Ah.
See the knot? Allah is originally meant to be 'All Godly' (/good). It is a perverted connection.
Those who refer most to this ancient syllables
in fact torment and pervert them the most.
And I am wondering when people will realize that they only follow the anger and bitterness of some old men who have long time ago turned away from life and respect for any living being, having been overwhelmed by the spirit of wanting to control as a result of their own traumata (while nature and life can not be controlled ...), using their last bit of intelligence for misleading anyone else, like this trying to conceal that they have failed their human mission on this level.
It is just the same as people were and are still mislead serving 'DEVS' (
deus, Latin), also by weird old men societies with schizophrenic tendencies.
What they do without healthily realizing, is invoking and following a misguiding entity which pretends to be 'good'/God; by this they pervert truth and diminish the chance that others may find it, too. I have no problem about anyone failing, as we all are 'under construction' ... I only have problem about not changing then and tearing others into the same mistakes. Or even tormenting, seriously.
It is so easy to fall for the lie who claims to be the truth by wearing its clothes.
In the case I refer to, these are willing destroyers and helpers to anything that has to do with good, with life, with warmth or with the beauty immanent in all creation.
They will dwell on their minority complexes, an induced imaginary superiority, a constant fear and reasonable paranoia which they turn into hatred against all that is not broken - as them.
Place this scheme on what ever you want ... the globe is getting narrow, and whatever happens in any corner of the world does affect any other corner, too. It is time to protect us and our kids from imported violence. We can only help others when we are not broken ourselves and we can only see clear when blur is giving place to clarity. We can not make all the same ... it is not all the same by purpose, and diversity is a part of the beauty as long as diversity respects all other in reverse.
Any war is always accompanied by a war against life - which is, destroying life in future generations by destroying happiness and life in kids, girls and mothers who could care.
Cowards fight women and children. This is a War Method, has always been and in such ways used for systematically destroying 'the imaginary opponent', in this case living souls, over generations and generations.
What people with this kind of mind do not realize is that 'the opponent' is only in themselves. Brought so far down, the inner animal is just biting any hand, and also the hand that would caress.
It is time for any and all people to wake-up and start with their very own children who have a
right to be protected from harm -
- by their mothers and fathers, by their aunts and uncles, by their clans, their societies and culture(s), by their communities and states.
This holds for everyone ... no matter which religion, ethnicity, gender or whatever.
Any minor mammals do it better than we, humans, do.
Europe with its ever detached administration and disconnected organizations thanks to their selection of streamlined 'useful idiots', is making a major mistake by trying, once more, to brush problems under their usual carpet. By not protecting own women and children, the bill may soon to be presented, and for all sides. When All is inside, how would they think to get away with it?
Where methodical violence is applied on parts of a population who would need most protection, it MUST be NAMED so that criminal behavior of violators will NOT INFLICT a backlash on those who are NOT that way, but coincidentally of similar looks, religions or apparent groups.
Only when you name a problem you can look at it the ways it is and find solutions which are appropriate against violators of a certain kind. Tolerating violence as part of culture ... is simply fear of facing the challenges to examine the truth.
Tradition ... is what is being carried along until we refuse to carry it any further.
Culture is connectivity, collaboration and change. Culture that is not in for mental, social and emotional growth and development is no culture.
It is us All to sort the lentils ... keep the Good but transform or reject the destructive.
Cheers on a hopefully more fruit-ful New Year,
May the cuts be healed, bewailed and overcome.
For All.
My Good plus your Good is our Good - there is All-ways connection.
Lyn
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