2009 - 2012. Through The Eyes of Someone

This time I would like to mention three films which I learned about.
All three gorgeous, miracolous and worthy each second of the time.

And it is like seeing things through the eyes - through the 'I's - of others. Beautiful. Reflections.


The first one of these is the Ai Wei-Wei 2012 film

'Never Sorry'.

Maybe some of you know it ... for the others, I would like to really recommend it. It is precious as it shows so simply and intensely that it is always, even if not easy at all many times, up to us what we do with our lives and even under the worst circumstances.

People DO change the world by changing thinking by just doing what is necessary to be done when we follow our innerst and do not give in to repressions. If some more would ... it would all be so much easier. Ai Wei-Wei does and I am thankful for this man to be in the world. Thanks from my heart.



What a man.

And this globe is lacking men so much. These days.



Another movie I fell in coincidentially, is life so often happens (and why everything always is good for something), is Margarethe von Trotta's

'Hannah Arendt'.

A time to think about the controversary of just obeying citizens who can be major contributors to the worst that can happen - just by doing what is asked of them. At its end, the film mentions the continuing trouble which bothered Ms Arendt throughout the rest of life: that it seems the just very 'normal' man who through 'normality' did the most evil which is thinkable. The path of 'understanding' is not easy at all, the most troublesome indeed. Without understanding, we won't understand. Not even our selves.



Maybe this philosophical dilemma can be solved by not trying to find the 'evil' as such incarnated.
Maybe it is only ... a lack of good. The world is not dual, and there is no duality ... and has never been.

Just this lack of good and lack of acting according to 'good' in our hearts causes most 'evil'.
So look around how common is this 'underlings mentality' everywhere. In organizations, in neighbours, family, your nearests - and maybe partly in yourself? You might slowly start to see.

No. 3 for today is Mark Cousins' 2009 'First Movie'.
A magical journey ... which I stumbled in and totally fell in love with.

Though the film seems to be of 2009 I bet not many fell over it by now. Also this one is ... just awesome.

Looking through and into the eyes of children with special experiences. A boy stating love is. In the people. Everywhere. In this village. A village, an area which experienced more than extreme violence - the Anfal-Operations. I write this here as I was wondering what the elder women were talking about. Though I know about the fate of the Kurds (in several areas ... not only Iraq), also I did not know the expression used.

Huge thanks to the filmmaker, himself a person with these special experiences. It makes sense to really listen to what these humans have to say. There is so much learning options in simple sentences, sounding profane.




So - if you get the chance to view any of them, I kindly recommend you to - do it. :)

Or don't - as you like ;)

And by the way:

Every one must live and die himself or herself with what they have done - or not done-, what we have lined up with, where we have spoken up or having kept shut our mouthes.

We are fully in respons(e) ... ability. Each moment of our lifes. 

And this fact is beautiful, you know?

Cheers and enjoy, experience a beautiful SUN~Day,
Lyn

But face it real

While the last post refers to what anyone who tried to hide or flee from reality has to do, I am noticing how many people actually are doing exactly this. They DO face their fears by repeating patterns over and over but without ever realizing how much they are forced to do it. Thus, they face but as they hide at the same time, they also do not face. They try their very best to become numb .... and as result, at a point, will turn out dumb. Remember the knowledge on neuroplasticity? It's we ourselves who are forming our brains. We can.

What they don't is to get over their fears by repeating them as same sequences. But this is what I meant with 'face them' - to become aware at a point. To simply not look at and away - but look at straightly and with open eyes.

Traumata are fears engraved - and I know this very well. We all have, and there is none who does not. The more you face them, the less you become afraud. The better your brain can work, as fear is a terrible stress factor which disables our capacities to think.

The point is that we need to get into a same or closely similar situation and become aware of how they work and function - and therefore how WE DO work and function. Then also we can find better ways out of destructive behaviors. Many humans become destructive for themselves and slowly kill the last pieces of their own soul ... and many become destructive for others. None of those is worth going for.

Intoxicated, people become toxine for others and at a point, unsociable. At a later point, they also will be unsociable with themselves. What a life to choose. Now - watch around and see. We are in the middle of exactly this. Who wishes so desperately to forget ... will forget. The question is whether the outcome is a) desirable and b) bearable. For the generation after, mainly.

In such case it would be necessary and wise to detox ... get out of the mess. Just then, again, you can face what caused it. And maybe, from a distance, see where things went wrong, to not fall into the same trap again. And you must be honest. Honesty might sometimes hurt. But better a moment of hurt which can be overcome rather than a lifetime of intoxication, numbness and dumbness. Maybe you need to let go some things, some occupations or someone who  has kept you down, often without realizing themselves either. So many have fallen into the dump and of course, this is also so relevant to understand, pieces of systems keep pieces of systems within. There are causilities. When we realize, we can choose. And we can change. Beware; it is getting complex. So complex at a point that you might think your brain is breaking. It's worth it ... if you are ready to bear some and master. Step by step, task by task. We need to face our inabilities to become able. Quite hard for a population of narcissists and bipolars, I know.


This is what is to be a 'warrior'. To be wary. To stand upright, use and enable more of our skills, to sharpen our senses which we have mainly lost. To take proper decisions by not being pushed and steered around but by taking timeouts also to re-assess any situation, oneself and clarify within.

I realize morew and more how many men - born as good, sensitive and sensable boys - are depressive. They are drugged and drugging themselves as a substitute for becoming men. They don't go for women but for same disabled females as they are. Another sign that being 'male' is by far not 'being man'.

They repeat their childhoods patters, become copies of what they never wanted to be just by having given up and trying to please someone who never was worth it. This is what they don't face - as a result, they do not face what it is to become a man. They run away - literally, by defense or denial mechanisms, by hiding and ducking away like they have been hiding when having been children. Hiding in numb pictures of themselves, in substitute societies instead of playing a real role in a real society, and in their virtual holes.They are not able to face any real situation as real humans. It is them who depress the man they were to become. And they are seeking for any help to do this they can get ... and they get as there are many who want them to be exactly like this, emasculated and castrated - instead of seeking help for growing.

The point why I am writing this is:

We need them.

It can't remain the ways it is right now.

We need them, and we need them to open their eyes, now.

We need them to turn back, switch back to what they were born to be - before they gave in, gave over and gave up to a form of society which turned right into wrong and left behind every cause of value for shere material existence. 

Materially existing are also machines. We are not.


As it is fact that even if they would open their eyes NOW, it is still a long way to go. 

Transforming all that stuff is not an easy path. It is a challenge.

Ciao and find some clear sky, maybe, too. And maybe a boy may find out what being 'man' is meant to be. I wish them all luck in this world. Be wise. Become what you have been meant to be - not depending of what any other wants you to be.

And it's another great day, again.

Yours,
Lyn

Fears

The way to overcome a fear is to

Face it, face it, face it and face it.
Until you have found the switch.

The same holds for traumata. 

Traumata are fears, engraved.

 

Depression is the gaoler.

And sometimes what holds you down can look soooooooo innocent that you would never dare to question. ;)

In other cases it is also something you were tabooed ... another good reason to question taboos.

You can break them by opening the box.
Never be afraid ... all you may find is good.
The only thing is that YOU need to promise to yourself to deal with it.



And now some happy reprogramming ... and my best wishes for your success,

Lyn

PS: 
The kittycat is innocent ... it's just a 'picture' for your 'other' brain hemisphere. To get it what is meant. :)

Information

Information, though we have definitely entered the information era for quite a while, still remains relative. Everything is relativ, of course. If we deal with information we need to be aware of how communication functions - and of how people function, fundamentally and basically. Otherwise we won't be able to distinguish the lots of information we receive neither to process in proper ways.

We need to learn about motivations and goals of people who deliver and spread information. We got to understand the ways of expressing messages and the ways of talking around a core message.

We need to understand about communication and even psychology a lot. Because often enough people do not lie consciously but simply dissociate and/or are projecting. Therefor, it is of relevance to understand how we function. And still, humans function mainly and basically as the animals that we are born into.

It is us who direct where we go. Each one of us. There are no excuses when we only follow what others have defined, due to our shere idleness. Or due to the triggers we function on. Remember, those are not yours; those have been imposed on you due to where you were born but have nothing to do with your real self.

It is our personal duty to become aware of who we are and what we are here for. As inconvenient as this might be. We got to dig deeper to rise.

Just as reminder: we have not been placed on this planet to multiply materially. We are here for bearing fruit as we ripen our selves: which has nothing and really nothing to do with doing it like rabbits do.

Have a nice start into a brandnew, a real GOOD week.

Just try to make sure you go for what YOU really wanted, not for what someone else or 'many elses' have imposed on you.

Yours,
Lyn

A Warrior's View

At first, I was learning to fight. Against what felt not right.

As I grew, I understood it's more worthy to fight for.

And now, I am just learning to not fight anymore.

It works, as a process, in no other order. If it has to do with growth, a seedling first needs to break through the surface of the soil. Then, it heads for the light for being with and soaking energy. Just with this, it can grow its roots deep into the soil where there is water and the rest of materials it needs.
Picture yourself.

The other aspect is that no one can let go what he or she has not been in for before. So when someone states he or she has no probs in letting go, but never fought at first against and next step for anything:  most likely this person is simply too afraid. For anything. Then such statement is the easiest to gain illusionary superiority, before oneself and before others.

But it remains illusionary: there was no process and such, no learning effect at all. 

Apathy with a well-sounding excuse is not the same as being able to really let go. Letting go something which is of worth for us is a sincere act.

Just being indifferent ... is only being not determined enough to make a statement or committment. And probably a good excuse to not act, as when we act we can win but also loose.

It keeps away from exploring one's inside, from strong feelings and also from growth.


Cheers, have a nice day and keep on tracking.
Else you might wake up one day and find your self float like a masterless boat.

Lyn

Just Like This

In many regards what you become is what you are filling yourself with. What you will be is what you are able to allow flowing through you without getting tormented. 

The latter is largely a matter of own decision.

Sometimes people only see what has been done to them by unconsciously doing just the same to another person who is just as they once were. Sometimes people are sent on our ways to experience exactly this.
Now ask yourself how often you get persons sent into your life who accept you exactly as what you are? Is it so hard to let down the harnish most of us have built around during a lifetime where they have experienced the full cruelty of the absence of all that we really need? Is it so hard to be looked at with love as what we really are and still to be loved - as what we are?

In the reflection of what we do, we can see ourselves. If we wanted to.

Just by NOT doing to another child what has destroyed the child in us, we can heal our child and another child at the very same time. By having mercy with other souls, not by obeying the pressures we have known from the moment we came here, we also have mercy with our selves.

We got the power. Definitely. It is in us.

Love,
Lyn

Fasting. Rising. Breaking Chains (V-Day)

Having on my mind for today two issues:

One of them is about fasting.

The major benefit of fasting is simply to break habits. Habits in eating, in behaviour, in anything we are used to. A nice and welcome side-effect may be to get detoxicated from what intoxicates us too often and as we are so used to, we have lost our senses for feeling it. For feeling us and also for feeling the others around.

It is about just to think what we daily do and become aware.

Get away from self-destructive habits which are even not your own. Whether it is compensation for what you are really missing. Or just a stupid practice you even don't feel for but got so used to.

So think about! ;)


And the other topic is:

A rise. Sincerely.

One billion rising, actually.

'I refuse to watch as more than a billion women experience violence on the planet.'

Let's break the rules (and)
Break the Chain.

Please check out why, at
V-Day.org home.

A good idea is to 

Just do it

Today.

Take a heart now.
Namely yours.

Lyn