As usual, stumbling over human perceptions in daily life and trying to bring it on paper. On screen, to be exact.
What I hear when observing some things going wrong, is often that I would be 'critical'. Worse is even if it is expressed as I would 'see things only black and white' or even 'negative'. Fortunately, nothing of this is true at all, but the opposite.
The point is that I see if a horse is laming.
If it does, I must hint at this so that measures can be taken in time. To prevent that the laming leg gets worse and in the end, the horse needs to be shot.
I don't want the horse to be shot and will have done my best to assess, diagnose and in best case to heal the leg in time.
That's all I do but people don't want to hear that. Despite a very clear communication and deep consideration of which words I use, people drag my words on a level where it gets black and white, and I am extremely sorry for this, over and over. Because I see, this way of thinking must be in people.
Black and white filtering is reptile functionality and certainly lifesaving at a very early stage in life where differentiation abilities are not yet well developed.
Just needed
to get this
in words.
Sincerely
yours,
Lyn
What I hear when observing some things going wrong, is often that I would be 'critical'. Worse is even if it is expressed as I would 'see things only black and white' or even 'negative'. Fortunately, nothing of this is true at all, but the opposite.
The point is that I see if a horse is laming.
If it does, I must hint at this so that measures can be taken in time. To prevent that the laming leg gets worse and in the end, the horse needs to be shot.
I don't want the horse to be shot and will have done my best to assess, diagnose and in best case to heal the leg in time.
That's all I do but people don't want to hear that. Despite a very clear communication and deep consideration of which words I use, people drag my words on a level where it gets black and white, and I am extremely sorry for this, over and over. Because I see, this way of thinking must be in people.
Black and white filtering is reptile functionality and certainly lifesaving at a very early stage in life where differentiation abilities are not yet well developed.
to get this
in words.
Sincerely
yours,
Lyn
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