Just found a gorgeous piece of info on body language. A real pearl among a lot of input we might find. Information is everywhere, that's the good part - information is confusing and we need to pick out what brings us further. That's also the good part but certainly a little difficult in this information overflow we live in these days. This one, I really would recommend.
Please open and watch yourself ... if you like so.
When the importance of message is 7:93 with 93% underlying information, you might get an idea why the spoken (or written) word is not all at all. Unless the word is in synchronicity with all. Precondition is that we regain a relation with the animal that still reads and knows to process the sensitive signs and signals, the animal in us. As I try to say: Make friends with them. Neither the reptile nor the animal nor the ego is bad in itself, to the contrary, they are part of us ad precious teachers and helpers. It is generally the measure and application that matters, and when who of them takes over if we allow - or if we are helpless, and they will do what they chose to do themselves and without us, as single entities and only with what they have in mind (see Maslow, if you like, again).
If we suppress them we only worsen it (that's actually what many religions do, and it gets so evident where that leads to). This is how we are whole and get a clue to our selves.
We are simply not as simple as we were tought to be. Especially when we were tought to deny good parts of us.
For me learning about it started with a middle class, later upper middle class, home and the lies kept under the carpets that quite confused me as I sensed the underlying, too. It was worth looking deeper and wider, seraching behind in order to grasp what is going on in my family, then in families around, and to be able to decide what I won't go for, and later later (so very much later, in fact) what to go for. Just remaining open for the signals directs the way of learning, same as the simple word reveals: 'Go searching and you will find'.
The simple conclusion: If we don't start searching, we also won't find.
While it is so simple, it is as well so important: 'Ask and the answers will be given'.
Which leads to the logical result that we must start to ask, too, to get nearer to the answers and at the same time why nothing works as an answer that was not asked before.
Another step was an early input for me, due to my interests, by Samy Molcho, a most wonderful teacher on nonverbals. He has created a precious heritage during his life and I fully agree with his statement
Later and throughout all life, animals tought me what is straight and healthy communication (actually they saved me from going nuts in a schizophrenic society if you understand what I mean) ... and the best teachers are animals we have a relation with without that disturbing drive for controling them or being liked or loved. We can like and love ourselves and only then can be partners at all, also to animals. They will accept us as we are (if we don't feed or submit them or in other ways make them dependents or co-dependents, something you also can observe). Animals that grow up in healthy psychological ways with healthy behavioural patterns show us what the animal in us in principle needs. We then might find that how we live on this planet in this time does everything else but fulfill the minimum human requirements. So already our children grow up with large gaps. For them it is desastrous as they are, first, nothing but little animals in their early development stages. Well, most don't make it further as we know.
Of course, a lot of learning comes from understanding psychology as used in sales, marketing, media and especially in the information game,. I always ran into heavy discussions with people who proclaim lightheartedly that it is fine to manipulate if it is for good purpose (probably their own purse or power), and if the people who are manipulated do not know what's good for them yet. Not few people in this narcissistic estate our societies are in, also consider it as 'legal' to take what others don't permanently and heavily protect. What a world to live in ...
I believe in free will, and that simply does not go with manipulation. So, indeed the best way to protect from being manipulated is understanding how it works and how 'human' works; and even then we find ourselves over and over in the middle of the same game. It is not easy to be aware always, especially as everything is done so that we are kept under a permanent distress (that's another chapter to dwell on). It is lots of processing to puzzle apart and put together the pieces of information if we get hold of them, at all. It takes time and an estate of peace in mind.
The point is that at a point, I find out that people in fact want to be manipulated. They run for it, over and over, and seem to be thirsting for being manipulated like flowers would run for rain (if they could). I am wondering what goes wrong there but can ony explain it with the fact that manipulation is an estate people know from earliest childhood on, and it provides them with a sort of convenience or satisfaction or kind of security. Being manipulated and submitting to manipulation is an easy way not to take over self-responsibility and act. Which means at the same time, an easy way to not become adult and grow. But that is the purpose here, if they want to believe it or not: Grow. Every plant knows that and grows and creates and tries its very best. If we would be made to remain babies, then we would also look like babies. The problem occurs from the discrepance between the outside person and the inside.
Just recently the last decade or so, I namely find that plants as well talk to us if we learn to listen and share. And it is wonderful what they have to say. Often I might find that they are much wiser than humans.
The only objective to deal with all that might be to become what we are.
Because that is what we are meant to be when born into this world.
Enjoy and 'cherrish your day',
and keep on moving,
Love,
Lyn
Please open and watch yourself ... if you like so.
When the importance of message is 7:93 with 93% underlying information, you might get an idea why the spoken (or written) word is not all at all. Unless the word is in synchronicity with all. Precondition is that we regain a relation with the animal that still reads and knows to process the sensitive signs and signals, the animal in us. As I try to say: Make friends with them. Neither the reptile nor the animal nor the ego is bad in itself, to the contrary, they are part of us ad precious teachers and helpers. It is generally the measure and application that matters, and when who of them takes over if we allow - or if we are helpless, and they will do what they chose to do themselves and without us, as single entities and only with what they have in mind (see Maslow, if you like, again).
If we suppress them we only worsen it (that's actually what many religions do, and it gets so evident where that leads to). This is how we are whole and get a clue to our selves.
We are simply not as simple as we were tought to be. Especially when we were tought to deny good parts of us.
For me learning about it started with a middle class, later upper middle class, home and the lies kept under the carpets that quite confused me as I sensed the underlying, too. It was worth looking deeper and wider, seraching behind in order to grasp what is going on in my family, then in families around, and to be able to decide what I won't go for, and later later (so very much later, in fact) what to go for. Just remaining open for the signals directs the way of learning, same as the simple word reveals: 'Go searching and you will find'.
The simple conclusion: If we don't start searching, we also won't find.
While it is so simple, it is as well so important: 'Ask and the answers will be given'.
Which leads to the logical result that we must start to ask, too, to get nearer to the answers and at the same time why nothing works as an answer that was not asked before.
Another step was an early input for me, due to my interests, by Samy Molcho, a most wonderful teacher on nonverbals. He has created a precious heritage during his life and I fully agree with his statement
'body language is like the spoken language - but it can not lie'(webpage in German language if you like to check it out.)
Later and throughout all life, animals tought me what is straight and healthy communication (actually they saved me from going nuts in a schizophrenic society if you understand what I mean) ... and the best teachers are animals we have a relation with without that disturbing drive for controling them or being liked or loved. We can like and love ourselves and only then can be partners at all, also to animals. They will accept us as we are (if we don't feed or submit them or in other ways make them dependents or co-dependents, something you also can observe). Animals that grow up in healthy psychological ways with healthy behavioural patterns show us what the animal in us in principle needs. We then might find that how we live on this planet in this time does everything else but fulfill the minimum human requirements. So already our children grow up with large gaps. For them it is desastrous as they are, first, nothing but little animals in their early development stages. Well, most don't make it further as we know.
Of course, a lot of learning comes from understanding psychology as used in sales, marketing, media and especially in the information game,. I always ran into heavy discussions with people who proclaim lightheartedly that it is fine to manipulate if it is for good purpose (probably their own purse or power), and if the people who are manipulated do not know what's good for them yet. Not few people in this narcissistic estate our societies are in, also consider it as 'legal' to take what others don't permanently and heavily protect. What a world to live in ...
I believe in free will, and that simply does not go with manipulation. So, indeed the best way to protect from being manipulated is understanding how it works and how 'human' works; and even then we find ourselves over and over in the middle of the same game. It is not easy to be aware always, especially as everything is done so that we are kept under a permanent distress (that's another chapter to dwell on). It is lots of processing to puzzle apart and put together the pieces of information if we get hold of them, at all. It takes time and an estate of peace in mind.
The point is that at a point, I find out that people in fact want to be manipulated. They run for it, over and over, and seem to be thirsting for being manipulated like flowers would run for rain (if they could). I am wondering what goes wrong there but can ony explain it with the fact that manipulation is an estate people know from earliest childhood on, and it provides them with a sort of convenience or satisfaction or kind of security. Being manipulated and submitting to manipulation is an easy way not to take over self-responsibility and act. Which means at the same time, an easy way to not become adult and grow. But that is the purpose here, if they want to believe it or not: Grow. Every plant knows that and grows and creates and tries its very best. If we would be made to remain babies, then we would also look like babies. The problem occurs from the discrepance between the outside person and the inside.
Just recently the last decade or so, I namely find that plants as well talk to us if we learn to listen and share. And it is wonderful what they have to say. Often I might find that they are much wiser than humans.
The only objective to deal with all that might be to become what we are.
Because that is what we are meant to be when born into this world.
Enjoy and 'cherrish your day',
and keep on moving,
Love,
Lyn
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