There is nothing as fruitful as talking with total strangers, sometimes.
We humans need us humans, and as a set up organism of many, we get in deep trouble if we would try to live as one only, or if we remain in isolated areas of thinking and habits where nothing changes and nothing really ex-changes, too.
Isolated and alone is not what we were made for, despite it sometimes is very necessary to get back to our roots and re-arrange inside and all alone. Like a car needs to see the garage from time to time for a check-up whether it is still safe for the road, it is not disadvantegeous if we do similarly. That check-up of course can not be done by people who only look at the seats and if the steering wheel still look quite o.k. If the engine or the gears grumble, there are specialists needed who may look deeper and into the not immediately obvious, and not just with the expectation that anyway it was functioning until now so why should there be anything to re-adjust. With that attitude and superficiality it is quite likely that one day the vehicle might show strange habits on the road, and very unexpectedly then.
It is certainly better if either we ourselves check-up, in case we call the rare ability for self-assessing our own. Or if we get checked by and check with total strangers. In many situations in life it had been total strangers who re-arranged and widely enlarged my views. People whom I met on travels. Old people. Young people. People from a totally different background and among each others the same, people with totally different life experiences, roots and outlooks, hopes and dreams. Talks after some long and deep thinking at a bar with someone, in an otherwise lonely place, can re-set some of our views we have on life and on ourselves. On our life, on the lives of others and on life itself. A talk to an unsympathic neighbour at first sight, in a café. Talks in closed circles of similar kinds to tranches of your own kind, too, though only for a little while, as no one is like you, anyone, any little creature is created uniquely and has to find through it's life in a unique and own way. There is no one to tell us how it works but only many, many different views from which we can try to see issues from a new and different angle. We don't have to agree and nevertheless, such enriches us enourmously.
Thus, we come together, open up for some moments, and automatically what ever we just carry with us gets a different re-flection, even if we do not dwell so extremely much in the details. Souls on their ways traveling through the world and getting tossed around need other souls to re-cognize the shine and why we are here. Searchers and any other alive beings re-cognize, re-flect and re-spect one another. I guess that's quite similar to how P. Coelho describes it in his booklet 'Manual of The Warrior of Light'. Hopefully, they then depart with the good input and memories of the meet, and do not try to turn it into a here-level relation (as this one doesn't work. We may get to learn that we are connected, always, anyway).
What enriches us stays within and both or all involved refill their reservoirs, apart from fruitful inputs for the way further. We all lose energies while we deal with those who can't refill from life itself or from the satisfaction they create themselves. We need one another, from time to time, and it is so tremendously precious to meet others who also haven't given up searching for what is meant. People who dare to take risks in life to stand in for something they are totally convinced of, people who dare to oppose what goes wrong and who have not given up looking behind and anew and for better ways. We all have our blessures but we also all have the ability to heal them well. We don't have to stick like instable molecules fixed to other instable molecules. We meet, cherish, and let go. It took me long time to learn this.
Don't try to conserve. Cherish. Enjoy. And ... let it flow.
It is a funny permanent contradiction that those humans who already are on their way also deal a lot with self re-adjustment, and that those who are much further whole deal a lot more with healing and getting new, different and deeper perspectives and insights.
Have an energetic and re-flected start into this another. beautiful weekend, too, and enjoy a merry meet where ever it may come along. For those who seek for growth, may it be good fruitful input to enjoy and refill for your further way.
May be you re-al-ize your self.
Cheers,
Lyn
We humans need us humans, and as a set up organism of many, we get in deep trouble if we would try to live as one only, or if we remain in isolated areas of thinking and habits where nothing changes and nothing really ex-changes, too.
Isolated and alone is not what we were made for, despite it sometimes is very necessary to get back to our roots and re-arrange inside and all alone. Like a car needs to see the garage from time to time for a check-up whether it is still safe for the road, it is not disadvantegeous if we do similarly. That check-up of course can not be done by people who only look at the seats and if the steering wheel still look quite o.k. If the engine or the gears grumble, there are specialists needed who may look deeper and into the not immediately obvious, and not just with the expectation that anyway it was functioning until now so why should there be anything to re-adjust. With that attitude and superficiality it is quite likely that one day the vehicle might show strange habits on the road, and very unexpectedly then.
It is certainly better if either we ourselves check-up, in case we call the rare ability for self-assessing our own. Or if we get checked by and check with total strangers. In many situations in life it had been total strangers who re-arranged and widely enlarged my views. People whom I met on travels. Old people. Young people. People from a totally different background and among each others the same, people with totally different life experiences, roots and outlooks, hopes and dreams. Talks after some long and deep thinking at a bar with someone, in an otherwise lonely place, can re-set some of our views we have on life and on ourselves. On our life, on the lives of others and on life itself. A talk to an unsympathic neighbour at first sight, in a café. Talks in closed circles of similar kinds to tranches of your own kind, too, though only for a little while, as no one is like you, anyone, any little creature is created uniquely and has to find through it's life in a unique and own way. There is no one to tell us how it works but only many, many different views from which we can try to see issues from a new and different angle. We don't have to agree and nevertheless, such enriches us enourmously.
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What enriches us stays within and both or all involved refill their reservoirs, apart from fruitful inputs for the way further. We all lose energies while we deal with those who can't refill from life itself or from the satisfaction they create themselves. We need one another, from time to time, and it is so tremendously precious to meet others who also haven't given up searching for what is meant. People who dare to take risks in life to stand in for something they are totally convinced of, people who dare to oppose what goes wrong and who have not given up looking behind and anew and for better ways. We all have our blessures but we also all have the ability to heal them well. We don't have to stick like instable molecules fixed to other instable molecules. We meet, cherish, and let go. It took me long time to learn this.
Don't try to conserve. Cherish. Enjoy. And ... let it flow.
It is a funny permanent contradiction that those humans who already are on their way also deal a lot with self re-adjustment, and that those who are much further whole deal a lot more with healing and getting new, different and deeper perspectives and insights.
Have an energetic and re-flected start into this another. beautiful weekend, too, and enjoy a merry meet where ever it may come along. For those who seek for growth, may it be good fruitful input to enjoy and refill for your further way.
May be you re-al-ize your self.
Cheers,
Lyn
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